{"id":373,"date":"2020-03-08T16:44:09","date_gmt":"2020-03-08T16:44:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.daphneinstockings.com\/?p=373"},"modified":"2020-12-22T11:30:08","modified_gmt":"2020-12-22T11:30:08","slug":"work-sports-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.daphneinstockings.com\/mystory\/daphne-in-stockings\/sports\/work-sports-life\/","title":{"rendered":"Lonely life"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>After my fall, I had contact with my colleagues from the department&#8217;s quality of education. They sent me a nice bouquet. Technically I wasn&#8217;t allowed to join meetings in that department. These colleagues were the last ones I worked with, and I would still be working with them when my fall didn&#8217;t happen. I felt sad because I had to cancel an audit and a conversation after an audit we already did at a school. When our first lock-down was about to happen, I tried to stay in contact and reached out to them to help them. Even in bed, I enjoyed being a team member. I loved working on this team. Contact was possible because I wasn&#8217;t removed from that Whatsapp group. Helping, on the other hand, was impossible. I didn&#8217;t have the allowance to the systems they worked in, and I couldn&#8217;t join meetings. On March 16th, I was removed from that Whatsapp group too. At that moment, I lost my connection with my workplace and colleagues. I felt lonely, still not knowing why. The only contact I had from the big board I work for was a principal colleague I loved working with at a school. She sent me a card with her colleagues at that school.<\/p><p>In that period I also planned a run at the CPC-run in The Hague with my daughter. We trained for it, but there was no way I was able to run in this condition. So her father would run with her. He picked us up, including the wheelchair and crutches. Because I couldn&#8217;t leave my leg down, I had to use the wheelchair. When my daughter and her father went to the start, I felt terrible. I got stuck in a muddy field\u2014Luckily there were many people and nice men who helped me out. So I saw them just before the finish. A great day for her! Also, a great day for me, because I wasn&#8217;t all alone captured in my own house.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>After my fall, I had contact with my colleagues from &hellip; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":378,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18,14,19],"tags":[],"featured_image_src":"https:\/\/www.daphneinstockings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/IMG_9497.jpg","featured_image_src_square":"https:\/\/www.daphneinstockings.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/IMG_9497.jpg","author_info":{"display_name":"Daphne","author_link":"https:\/\/www.daphneinstockings.com\/mystory\/daphne-in-stockings\/author\/admin\/"},"category_info":"<a href=\"https:\/\/www.daphneinstockings.com\/mystory\/daphne-in-stockings\/category\/life\/\" rel=\"category tag\">Life<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.daphneinstockings.com\/mystory\/daphne-in-stockings\/category\/sports\/\" rel=\"category tag\">Sports<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.daphneinstockings.com\/mystory\/daphne-in-stockings\/category\/work\/\" rel=\"category tag\">Work<\/a>","tags_info":"","social_share_info":"<a data-share=\"facebook\" href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=https:\/\/www.daphneinstockings.com\/mystory\/daphne-in-stockings\/sports\/work-sports-life\/\" class=\"tb-facebook-share social-share-default tb-social-share\" target=\"_blank\"><i class=\"fab fa-facebook-f\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/a><a data-share=\"twitter\" href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/share?url=https:\/\/www.daphneinstockings.com\/mystory\/daphne-in-stockings\/sports\/work-sports-life\/\" class=\"tb-twiiter-share social-share-default tb-social-share\" target=\"_blank\"><i class=\"fab fa-twitter\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/a><a data-share=\"linkedin\" href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/shareArticle?url=https:\/\/www.daphneinstockings.com\/mystory\/daphne-in-stockings\/sports\/work-sports-life\/\" class=\"tb-linkedin-share social-share-default tb-social-share\" target=\"_blank\"><i class=\"fab fa-linkedin-in\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i><\/a>","wordExcerpt_info":"<p><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>After my fall, I had contact with my colleagues from the department&#8217;s quality of education. They sent me a nice bouquet. Technically I wasn&#8217;t allowed to join meetings in that department. These colleagues were the last ones I worked with, and I would still be working with them when my fall didn&#8217;t happen. I felt sad because I had to cancel an audit and a conversation after an audit we already did at a school. When our first lock-down was about to happen, I tried to stay in contact and reached out to them to help them. Even in bed, I enjoyed being a team member. I loved working on this team. Contact was possible because I wasn&#8217;t removed from that Whatsapp group. Helping, on the other hand, was impossible. I didn&#8217;t have the allowance to the systems they worked in, and I couldn&#8217;t join meetings. On March 16th, I was removed from that Whatsapp group too. At that moment, I lost my connection with my workplace and colleagues. I felt lonely, still not knowing why. The only contact I had from the big board I work for was a principal colleague I loved working with at a school. She sent me a card with her colleagues at that school.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>In that period I also planned a run at the CPC-run in The Hague with my daughter. We trained for it, but there was no way I was able to run in this condition. So her father would run with her. He picked us up, including the wheelchair and crutches. Because I couldn&#8217;t leave my leg down, I had to use the wheelchair. When my daughter and her father went to the start, I felt terrible. I got stuck in a muddy field\u2014Luckily there were many people and nice men who helped me out. So I saw them just before the finish. A great day for her! Also, a great day for me, because I wasn&#8217;t all alone captured in my own house.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n","comment_info":"0","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.daphneinstockings.com\/mystory\/daphne-in-stockings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/373"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.daphneinstockings.com\/mystory\/daphne-in-stockings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.daphneinstockings.com\/mystory\/daphne-in-stockings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.daphneinstockings.com\/mystory\/daphne-in-stockings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.daphneinstockings.com\/mystory\/daphne-in-stockings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=373"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.daphneinstockings.com\/mystory\/daphne-in-stockings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/373\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":380,"href":"https:\/\/www.daphneinstockings.com\/mystory\/daphne-in-stockings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/373\/revisions\/380"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.daphneinstockings.com\/mystory\/daphne-in-stockings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/378"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.daphneinstockings.com\/mystory\/daphne-in-stockings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=373"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.daphneinstockings.com\/mystory\/daphne-in-stockings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=373"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.daphneinstockings.com\/mystory\/daphne-in-stockings\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=373"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}